Seriously, I would say I was a total NO girlfriend to my
busband now boyfriend then. But now we married, I do not say yes nor do I say
no. I just make sure we say yes together, or no together for that matter. Of
course, that doesn’t happen all the time. How can two different people, raised
differently think the same all the time? The phrase Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus is sooo true in every
aspect.
Whenever, there is a matter we need to decide on, we make
sure to sit down and talk about the pros and cons. I’m kinda dense (as my
husband would sometimes say) and being that I have the tendency to analyze (or
over analyze) even the simplest matter before I decide. Good thing my husband
loves me so much he understands my qualms J
I think it’s just we both value each other’s opinion; we’ve
been together for so long (15 yrs and counting) that we are like the extension
of each other.
3 comments:
wow! 15 years and counting. I always admire married couples who had been married long and the wife can still write wonderful things about their husbands. I have been around so many wives and most of the time, I hear complains about their spouses, hehehe. Don't I complain about mine too? sometimes I do, but oftentimes, I tell them how great he is. But if he asks me if I want a diamond ring? I would say YES right away, hehehe.
Compromise, understanding each other's needs and trust are essential to have a successful marriage. Saying NO somethings won't hurt. Thanks for joining our Couple's Corner. Aka..Rodliz
thanks mommy liz. sorry if I confused you, we've been married 5 yrs but we were bf-gf for 10yrs, thus, 15yrs :) But until now we still celebrate our bf-gf anniversary aside from our wedding anniversary. its a very special date for us :)
i like what you said about 'saying yes together' for me it's the concrete manifestation of being UNITED in marriage..
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